Next part of The Fellatio Project…Vanilla Kink Sundae giving us instructions…and I could not resist the proper towel usage…

Triumph! Tonight was a win. I sucked his dick and he came in my mouth, and I knew what to do for once. I didn’t struggle, or gag, or panic. I didn’t worry about spit or swallow. I didn’t feel my teeth touch him even once. And his toes curled. Yep. Victory.

It’s all over folks. Uncurl his toes and hand him a towel.

Years ago when I was in college I was good at this. If I’m really drunk, I’m good at this. So what makes a vanilla wife lose her confidence, and her place in the pack? And how does she get it back?

Well, guys, a lot has to do with perception. She has to be confident that you’re fairly clean. She has to believe you want her to, that you’re not going to be disappointed, no matter what. She has to know what you want, and vice versa. If she’s sucking you off til Sunday, and you don’t cum she wonders what she’s doing wrong. Conversely, if you think she wants to fuck after, you may be holding out. The devils own tug-of-war, playing out between your legs.

Communicate. If she can learn to say something simple like, “this time it’s all about you,” or “ooh I can’t wait to get you warmed up,” then you’ll know, and she will too. If she’s not such a pro at communicating, let her go awhile then say “Damn that’s hot. Let’s save some for later, baby. I can’t wait to fuck you.” Or the classic, “Damn, I’m gonna cum. You okay?”

Don’t tell her she raked your cock with her teeth last time. In fact, don’t tell her anything negative about fellatio, or she may just give up. Tell her that men love to hear women gag on their cock. First time I heard that, I knew he meant it, cause his cock was performing a tonsillectomy before my lips had parted good. He was hung like a horse, and proud to make me gag. Then I realized it was just part of the deal. Sometimes it happens. Oh, heck, it happens often. No shame.

If she’s meek, be careful about forcing her head down. Yeah, it feels good to you to be in control, but it can scare a woman. It’s okay to show her or tell her what feels good, but use some tact.

Ladies. It’s not so difficult. Men love it. They are naturally going to want you to be good at it. They’re going to be rooting for you. (Oh, no pun intended.) Fall in love with cock. Touch cocks, smell cocks, taste cocks. Smell the zipper of his jeans. Develop a taste for that sweaty, salty flavor of pre-cum. Do the job to that point and move on to something else. Repeat, repeat, repeat. Be sure and notice that pre-cum actually tastes soooo sexy. It’s salty and sweet, and perfectly clean.

Once you feel really good about it and you’re cock hungry, go for it. Some tricks? Dress the part. The sexier the better, but he’ll take a blowjob even if you have on your grandpa’s old overalls. Wear a flavored petrolatum or mineral oil lip gloss. It helps lube up the shaft and lends some sexy scent and taste. Apply very sparingly a bit of lickable dick lube, perhaps one containing menthol, cinnamon, peppermint or spearmint. Let him know first, so he won’t get an unpleasant jolt if the sensation is warm. Once you are positioned, go for it.

Some guys like to see your lips wrapped around them. Alternately, you can hide the process from them, with your hand, your hair, or the angle. It’s a bit of a tease. I like to do both. If my man is going to cum in my mouth, I like him to let me know just before. That way, I can adjust if I need to.

An extra I like is some non-oral stimulation just before we start. Long hair, and big boobs are useful here, as he’s going to love to feel and see those against his cock. But use what you have. Little kisses, lingerie silk, whatever. Just no nibbles. Not unless you already know he likes it, because most men don’t.

Once he’s hard, take him in your mouth fully to lube him up. It’s easy enough to shield your bottom teeth behind your lip, but the uppers can be more problematic if he’s, err… more than a mouthful. You are probably going to be using a combination of hands and mouth. Alternate between licking, swirling and sucking the head. Think of him as the most delicious man-pop you could ever want. If you keep him well lubed with your mouth and any product you are using, you can use your hand as a masturbation sleeve to hold him while you work him over. Yum! Don’t yank up and down, just caress or hold him while you go down on him.

At this point he should be straining to deep-throat you. Let it happen. He will tickle your tonsils without making you gag if you are not nervous, and if you use your forefinger to apply pressure to the top side base of his cock. It should be nice and lubed by now, so instead of grasping him and trying to guide the deep-throat, use that forefinger on the top of the base of his cock, backward and forward, like the bow on a violin, as he fucks your mouth. It will lower the angle of his penetration and allow his cock to avoid your upper teeth and go straight back to the back of your throat.

As he cries out or motions that he’s about to cum, acknowledge him in some small way. Eye contact, a touch, something… small and calm so he knows you are ready. If your mouth is open just slightly as he cums, rather than trying to suck it up and meet what you think are his expectations, you’ll finish easier. Nature abhors a vacuum, so if you try to take his load while sucking, you are likely to choke or gag. If your mouth is open, any excess cum can ooze out of your mouth while you decide to swallow or spit. You can actually do it all, in some instances. That lovely drool that’s going to make him think you’re really hot with his cum dripping down your lips, a small swallow, as you suck the head real quick. Then pull your hands, palms open, down his cock, filled with his load. Lean forward in that lotus-like hand position with your cum covered lips and kiss the tip, while it still stands erect between your palms. It’s all over folks. Uncurl his toes and hand him a towel.

The Fellatio Project
The Fellatio Project

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